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Now n days, these are what technology has done to people. These are some reasons why relationships don’t last, friendships slowly disappears, drama, rumors, bullsh*t, etc. Online social networks ruins it, I mean not trying to say it’s bad, but to only people that don’t admit or see how it can change anyone from relationships, friendships, even yourself. I still member way back then how people pass notes, date to get to know one another before going out, being shy to the person you have a crush on, holding hands n hugging n cuddling, now it all started with myspace, cellphone/txting,facebook, tumblr, twitter, gifyo, instagram, etc. All these leads to a lot of how it is now, sex, drugs, attentions, being noticed, competitive, etc. Idk if it’s js me but a lot of people don’t admit that these kinds of un notice things can ruin a lot n can change a lot from during the good ol 90’s from now, the new generation…This is why people are having the trouble of trusting anyone…
Boys:
- When boys only want sex from a girl, they don’t really care about you, they only care of how much they can put there dicks in a pussy. You could actually tell if a guy only wants pussy, that’s when you refuse to give it to him they get mad over it.
- Boys that care, are the one’s respecting girls not asking for sex. They actually care about their girl not for sex but to have them to be there as their significant other as their soul mate.
Girls are not toys to be play around with, they’re not like a toy where you get so excited to have them, use them n play around with them, then leave them behind as they were nothing. They’re a human being like any other out in the world, we treat them as equal, with respect, dignity, n care.
Girls:
- Girls that only care about a guys size, only care for itssatisfaction, they may care about you first on what the outside, they may show you off of how cute your face is n personality or how sexy you are with a body, but once they only see the inside, they either take you as it is or leave you as if you was nothing to them n that you couldn’t satisfy them.
- Girls that don’t care about a guy size are the one’s that loves to commit n loves to prove a person wrong that not all girls are the same. The only size they would care for a guy would be the size of their heart n brain. To prove that he can show how to love a girl of the way they are n to listen n to think as if their girl are the only thing that matters in the world.
Guys are also not a toy to play with, not a toy for you girls pleasure, we are not here to always satisfy your sexual needs, but we are here to satisfy what you need, love/life/affection/care/respect/etc. We are not a toy where you can js use us for fun n for your pleasure n then get sick n tired of it n moving onto the next, we are here to show you they’re still guys out there not only care for sex but to care n love for you n take you as for who you are.
I’ve Realized…
-No matter how hard you try, how hard you show n prove to a person, you’ll always end up being a douche bag some how…how you may ask? Well somehow caring so much ends up being over protective, taking over someone’s life, uhm, ends up expecting too much, we worry too much, insecurity cock blocks, jealousy gets in the way, etc. Yeah we not being an asshole, we js care if anyone notices it…
I have realized
-that no matter how hard you try, how hard you care, how hard you want to treat someone equally, it’ll never be the same, it’ll never be equal unless that someone is actually see n feel to be in your shoes. With all the insecurity with all the worries n high expectations with one person, to one person that may seem it thinks for itself, do whatever he/she likes, misunderstood, n not think from time to time, I don’t think it’ll ever be equal unless people put they’re shoes onto that others persons shoes. A lot of people never really realize what they do, till someone points it out, when that happens it either ends up wrong n leads to arguments n misunderstanding or there’s a 50/50 chance that person will understand, listen n make changes. But for those who all are going through with this situation, you’re never alone in the world. Everything in life is a huge circle, everything will repeat itself but for those who makes changes can learn n adapt new things. Just believe n have hope…
For who requested about Feeling invisible
-when your significant other is around with their friends or Talk with them, they don’t realize a lot of things…they may feel like you’re there to them but to you you may feel like you’re no where to be found. Too busy to Talk too n feel like a second option. Ever had that feeling, that feeling when you feel like they can’t even try to hit you up or have the time to Talk to you even if they’re with their friends but when you try to Talk to them its either late replies n when that happens for the most part they don’t even realize they skip what we asked about but they Talk about something else. That feeling js makes you feel alone don’t it makes you feel invisible like you’re not even there…to everyone that feels like that, js hang on, its js that moment cause sooner or later when they realize something n start to Talk to you like nothing happen n when you show them no attention, they’ll start asking what’s wrong n when you tell em they get mad over something they don’t even realize of what we see n felt. But for those who feels this way, hang on its js for that moment n it’ll be over n they’ll realize it sooner or later…keep that head up, chin up, n keep moving n try to think positive. It’s life, everything will only repeat itself so js live it, have patience, cause all it is is a matter of timing of everything…
Let’s all play a game…
Go out with someone, tell them you love them, let them know you’re always going to be there, handle eachothers situations n have it for only you two business then n if you fall for it deeper commit to them. Then once you have them, do whatever you like, Talk to other people, think of other people, handle other peoples situations, n make the one you’re with feel like they’re js an option. To win is to see how much you can take it n stay with each other, to lose well that’s easy, either can’t take it n leave, or people cheat…let the games begin…whoever wins Congrats to you all, you have someone’s heart that commits n having them change for the good for both of you n learn their mistakes js to be n to stay with you. Whoever loses, I’m sorry for your losses, keep your head up n keep moving, they’re will be someone out there…
When I needed you the most…
-you were nowhere to be found, But when I’m not around, that’s when you needed me… Feeling like js a 2nd option, not important, not enough, its like other things or people are more important n I’m js there feeling helpless n useless n only needed when feel needed. Or this is js me thinking too much… I js don’t even know what right or wrong is anymore, I’m lost n confuse, feel like a nightmare that I need to wake up on…
I wonder…
-if all the words you be saying to me are real or how many people you say those words to other people while you’re with me. I sometimes do feel alone, feel like you’re not the only one on that relationship. Ever wonder why people lose someone on a relationship, its cause people don’t see nor realize what they have in front of them until they’re gone. Js cause you have that person doesn’t mean you can go Talk to other ppl of the opposite sex n Talk to them like you have no one, you may say they’re js friends n they’re nothing to you, but think about it, would the person who you with see the same way you do? Do you say the same words to them as you say your words to me. N you guys wonder why we always ask who you talking too n all you say is a friend n they’re nothing important. N when that person breaks up with you, you ask yourself what you did wrong. So ever wonder why a lot of us feel like we are alone, not important, not enough, well there you have it, we have our insecurity, expectations, n trust issues like yall do. Maybe not the same but you’re taken by us, so have our thoughts be in yours…
- From someone I know who’s dealing this feeling…
The true reason why I am who I am…
-Why I have insecurity, Why I worry, Why I have high expectations, n Why I have trust issues…Why you may ask? Well the true answer to that is that…
I’m Scared…Scared of losing you.
- I know I may come out to be a complicated person n that I know I’m not a perfect person, so I’m so sorry for being the way I am, for being this way towards you. I never meant to hurt you, it’s just how I am n how my past has done to me, I know I’m suppose to let go of my past but I just can’t, my past put me through so much that it’s hard to let it beside me, this is why I am to be…I know how much I hate being myself to be hurting you cause of how I am, I just hope you’re still willing to hang on n stick by me through whatever the outcome that comes…I may not be the ideal person you ever wanted, but I’m here trying everyday n telling myself everyday just to live life with you, I’m trying the best as I can be. I would understand if you don’t want to be with me cause of it but…I am trying…Truly I am n I’m Sorry…
My thoughts at the moment…
-Oh my heartache, my insecurity, my worries, my high expectations, go away please, you’re ruining my life…
A committed relationship should be for two people…
-Not the whole world…
- There’s a difference between of “I don’t care relationship n let everyone know my business so everyone in the world could give a try to fck it up” than a “REALationship that their business is only between for them two only n be happy together.”
- When comes across others trying getting in between n know you’re taken, know to have a limit w. them n for those who doesn’t know you’re taken, let them know right away before it’s too late. Meaning you may talk to a person having them not know you’re taken or already know that you are, always give simple hints that you’re taken letting them know you have someone, unless you like to get attention to others then might as well not be in one. As you may know, letting ppl get hints that you’re taken can give them hints to either, give you space n enjoy your happiness or if a person don’t care, they’ll try to get you to break up with the person you’re with to be with them on any way n ruin your happiness. Not letting anyone know you’re taken can have 90% chance of them to like you a lot n have deep feelings for you n once they find out you’re taken, they either have a choice, to get in between your relationship by being friendly, to make rumors, dramas, bullshit that you don’t even know about to the one you’re with or appreciate that you’re happy n let you have space to be happy with your significant other…
So for those who are in a relationship, always remember, you’ve chose to be with someone for a reason not an option. You’re with them cause you want to be with them cause of how they made a difference in your life n make you happy, a true relationship will go through it all but stays no matter what, (unless you cheated on that person, some ppl may give you another chance but mostly 99% will not, so make a choice, either stay be loyal n committed or not at all. Cause we are not just someone who to be there for comfort or cause you’re lonely n you miss having someone. Love a person of how they make you happy, not to be played around with…
That feeling
-That feeling that you feel like you’re not the only one that your significant other is talking too. Feel like he/she has js been hiding things from you n has been talking to other ppl behind your back. Feeling like he/she doesn’t want to say anything to you cause it hurts you. That feeling when he/she tells you that him/her js talking to what they call a friend of the opposite sex js a friend. But when you find things out of how the way they talk it js goes iffy, but you’re still there trusting that person. But js feel like you’re js getting lied on too. It’s like they want you to trust n love them so that they can take advantage of you later. So that once they know you fell over heels for them they can do whatever they want too, so if simple things that get to you they can do things to make you feel bad n to forgive them…Js those feelings gets to you n js makes you feel like you’re js getting lied too n make you look like a fool, like you’re blinded to see. Feeling like you’re js there for comfort, as a second option, as someone to rebound too for an escape.
- Or this is js me having high expectations for no reason n js hurting myself for something it’s not true…Or is it…
I could be the one who you always waited for…
-Just as long as you take care of me, i’ll take care of you like no one ever did…I’ll show you I can be different unlike your others, i’ll prove to you i’m what you wanted to always have n waited for, i’ll show you what no one has ever shown you before n that is with my full attention, respect, loyal, faithful, trustworthy, independent, care, n my love. As long as you do the same for me, i’ll do it 10x better…
Learn to have limits when you’re with someone…
-There’s a limit when it comes to being friends with someone who is the opposite sex when you’re in a relationships. There’s a limit of being js friends than being close friends. That limit is where you should watch out of how you talk to a person, the way you talk to them you may think it’s js friends but to them it might not be. I know it may have a high expectations n you js expect too much but it is what it is but has a reason. A reason for your significant other not to worry too much, I mean yeah they should trust you, but when it comes to someone you love so much you get insecure all around. I mean take a look at like this, if you are taken n you love a person n you have a friend of the opposite sex, you got so close to them at some points n yet so many people forget they have someone n they get so close to that person n forget about the one you’re with. You get so close to that person n they can have that magic to change your feelings towards them rather the one you have now. Relationship break ups usually happens when having another person get in between your situation. Having them get to know your business to either change your feelings towards them for you to break it off so they can have the chance to have you later. Just the people that know he/she is taken, have some respect for that person n give them space to be happy with there someone. Don’t be all up in there business like you’re with that person when you’re not. People like you are the reasons of the break ups. I mean if you guys have the power to do that to someone, you guys may have the power to have done it with so many others before. All i’m saying is, to the person that is taken, learn to have limits with people that are the opposite sex n to the person that know’s he/she is taken, have some self respect n don’t ruin someone’s happiness. Relationship business are only for the couples only not adding one or two other people. They’re a couple for a reason, as a best friend n as there own significant other. So have limits n if people come up to you let them know you’re taken when you’re talking to another person, let them have a heads up before it’s too late n last min, cause if they kept talking to you n know you’re not taken n once they find out, it can lead into either drama n js starts crap as in making rumors n etc. So js have limits, less stress, less drama, brings more joy n happiness while building trust. Make things strong, don’t give up, stay n be willing to the person you love…
